Recently saw a beautiful film October..concept,direction and brilliant performance by everyone. It makes you think a lot about our society and its fixed sets of rules and regulations. Most of the times we are expected or forced to do certain things for our blood relationships only. Most of the times person do it only because of social pressure. It is expected from us all the time to fulfill our responsibilities towards our blood relationships only, if we try to go beyond and take extra efforts to care for someone who is not related to us, people or society cannot tolerate it, people make you feel guilty for being nicer to the person other than your relative.
In the film Dan's mom gets restless and upset to see her son giving his precious time for his collogue Shivli ,who is on deathbed . She ask him why you are doing this for that girl? You haven't done this for me ever?
It makes you think that if the person tries to go beyond boundaries even parents are not ready to accept this fact?Why we behave like this? Why his mother gets upset instead of being proud of her son who is unconditionally helping his friend who is struggling for life? Why there is always a burden of blood relationships over other relations?
Sometimes in the journey of our life we meet some people and feel connection with them. Some relations make us feel happy where there is no burden of expectations and responsibilities. We make some relations like friendship or soulmates who are extremely close to us but we are not connected by blood. It's based on unconditional love and affection. Even the relation which we share with our lifepartner becomes most important for us than all other relationships.
Every relation is precious in the journey called life whether it's a blood relation or love relation but when the burden of expectations and responsibilities are imposed on the person specially towards blood relationships and it is socially unacceptable to go beyond its boundaries it slowly slowly kills the love and affection in relationships..and after certain time no love remains and person only tries to fullfill the expectations of society and people around just to be acceptable by our society.
This movie has raised very important issue, it gives a beautiful message that if you want to be there for someone you dont have to be related with that person, you don't need any relationship certificate from the society, YOU JUST HAVE TO CARE!!!
In the film Dan's mom gets restless and upset to see her son giving his precious time for his collogue Shivli ,who is on deathbed . She ask him why you are doing this for that girl? You haven't done this for me ever?
It makes you think that if the person tries to go beyond boundaries even parents are not ready to accept this fact?Why we behave like this? Why his mother gets upset instead of being proud of her son who is unconditionally helping his friend who is struggling for life? Why there is always a burden of blood relationships over other relations?
Sometimes in the journey of our life we meet some people and feel connection with them. Some relations make us feel happy where there is no burden of expectations and responsibilities. We make some relations like friendship or soulmates who are extremely close to us but we are not connected by blood. It's based on unconditional love and affection. Even the relation which we share with our lifepartner becomes most important for us than all other relationships.
Every relation is precious in the journey called life whether it's a blood relation or love relation but when the burden of expectations and responsibilities are imposed on the person specially towards blood relationships and it is socially unacceptable to go beyond its boundaries it slowly slowly kills the love and affection in relationships..and after certain time no love remains and person only tries to fullfill the expectations of society and people around just to be acceptable by our society.
This movie has raised very important issue, it gives a beautiful message that if you want to be there for someone you dont have to be related with that person, you don't need any relationship certificate from the society, YOU JUST HAVE TO CARE!!!
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